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From Conflict to Conciliation

How to Defuse Difficult Situations

Don't let conflict get in the way of meaningful collaboration!

Research based and easy to remember, the Six-C process for conflict resolution allows educators to take progressively more assertive steps as needed to resolve a disagreement, using the least amount of time and energy while preserving relationships. Illustrated with many examples and scenarios, the six steps are:

  • Concern: identifying actionable concerns
  • Confer: expressing concerns in nonthreatening ways
  • Consult: reviewing and clarifying the situation collaboratively
  • Confront: considering consequences and giving clear warnings
  • Combat: taking sustained, logical action
  • Conciliation: mending the wounds and restoring relationships

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Product Details
  • Grade Level: PreK-12, Elementary, Secondary
  • ISBN: 9781412979863
  • Published By: Corwin
  • Year: 2010
  • Page Count: 184
  • Publication date: November 29, 2012

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"The Six-C approach provides a framework within which people can work together to attack the problem, not each other. By ending each conflict with conciliation, those who use this approach can do much more than resolve conflict—they can build each other up so future conflicts will be easier to resolve."
—Bob Bowen, Chief Executive Officer
The Mandt System, Inc.

Don't let conflict get in the way of meaningful collaboration!

Conflict is inevitable, but educators can work together effectively if they understand how to defuse difficult situations before they escalate. This resource describes the Six-C process, a conflict resolution method that allows educators to take progressively more assertive steps as necessary to resolve disagreements.

Based on research and easy to remember, this approach helps readers handle challenging situations using the least amount of time and energy. Illustrated with many examples and scenarios, the six steps are:

  • Concern: identifying actionable concerns
  • Confer: expressing concerns in nonthreatening ways
  • Consult: reviewing and clarifying the situation collaboratively
  • Confront: considering consequences and giving clear warnings
  • Combat: taking sustained, logical action
  • Conciliation: mending the wounds and restoring relationships

Focused on preserving relationships while resolving disagreements, From Conflict to Conciliation can be used in any situation or setting, from the classroom to the community.


Key features

  • Educators can use the techniques described in this book with both peers and students
  • The book offers more than other conflict-resolution books because it acknowledges that conflict is inevitable while also stressing healthy ways to reach conciliation
  • Teachers and counselors can use the methods to model conflict-resolution skills for their students
  • The techniques are simple and easy to follow as well as theoretically sound.
  • The book is based on Invitational Education, a theory of practice maintaining that every person and everything in and around schools adds to or subtracts from the process of being a beneficial presence in the lives of human beings (http://www.invitationaleducation.net/)
Author(s)

Author(s)

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William W. Purkey

William Watson Purkey is professor emeritus of counselor education at the University of North Carolina-Greensboro and co-founder of The International Alliance for Invitational Education®. A noted author, researcher, speaker, and leader, Purkey has authored nearly 100 articles and more than a dozen books.
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John J. Schmidt

John J. Schmidt is professor emeritus of counselor education at East Carolina University, where he chaired the department for fourteen years. Author of more than 50 professional articles and nearly 20 books and manuals, Schmidt is a national certified counselor and a licensed professional counselor in North Carolina.
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John M. Novak

John M. Novak is professor and former chair of Graduate Studies in Education at Brock University, Canada. An invited keynote speaker on six continents, Novak is the author of numerous articles, book chapters, and ten books and monographs. He is the past president of the Society of Professors of Education.
Table of Contents

Table of Contents

Preface


Acknowledgments


About the Authors


1. Conflict and the Six-C Process

Introduction

Research and Anecdotal Support

What Is Unique About This Book?

The Six-C Process

The Conciliation Capstone

Saving Time and Energy

Conflict Is Inevitable

The Use and Misuse of Power

The Democratic Ideal

Why Everyone Matters

The Perceptual Tradition

When Viewpoints Conflict

Acceptance Versus Agreement

Summary

Major Themes

2. Concern

Latent Concerns

Actionable Concerns

What Is a Concern?

What Are Moral and Ethical Concerns?

What Are Your Concerns?

Potential Concerns at School

Potential Concerns at Home

Potential Concerns in the Community

Summary

Major Themes

3. Confer

Setting the Stage for Conferring

Can You Express Your Concern Clearly?

Can You Look Beyond the Immediate Concern?

Is There Room for Compromise or Re-Conceptualization?

The Value of Seeking Commitment

Helpful Communication Skills

The 3+++wish? Formula

Practicing the 3+++wish? Formula

Handling Challenges

Summary

Major Themes

4. Consult

Considering the Situation

What Is a Consulting Relationship?

Using a Triangular Structure

Involving Others in a Consultation

Sequential Steps for Consulting

Practicing the Consulting Sequence

Summary

Major Themes

5. Confront

Questions to Ask Yourself

Difference Between Conflict and Confrontation

Understanding Confrontation

Adapting Constructive Confrontation

Applying Practical Tips

Major Themes

6. Combat

Constraints on Combat

The Use of Power

Increasing Chances for a Desirable Outcome

Taking a Stand

Civilized Dissent

Summary

Major Themes

7. Conciliation and Beyond

Conciliation After Combat

Conciliation as a Reflective Process

Beyond Conciliation

Summary

Major Themes

References and Resources


Index


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